Hopefully, this information will help you and your puppy and/or dog(s) have a better understanding of who is communicating what to whom and why. To a puppy and dog, we are strange beings whose ways just don't all make perfect sense. That's a hard position to be in, because your dog's world is controlled by you. A dog can't explain to you what you're failing to understand about him. While we live in a world of language, dogs communicate in a variety of other ways.
It's important that you learn to understand your puppy and understand what he's "saying" to you. The better you understand how he experiences his world, the less likely you'll become frustrated or angry (and perhaps treat your charge unkindly). Ultimately, the better and stronger the bond between you and your dog will be. Here are some quick steps to help you communicate better with your puppy and/or dogs:
1. Your dog moves away when you pet his head: How are you doing the petting? A lot of people are taught that the way to pet a dog is to keep patting the top of his head. But a dog perceives that action as a signal of dominance, not affection. It also just doesn't feel good. Dogs prefer to be stroked, particularly on the side of the face, under the chin, or on the front of the chest. They also like having their rumps scratched.